Last time, back in 2022, with the original VF2, they shipped them and then only provided tracking numbers on request, see this thread - you provided your Kickstarter backer number and they would lookup the status. So how can you be sure that your board has not shipped.
They got so many individual requests that eventually a Microsoft Excel spreadsheet was uploaded indexed by Kickstarter backer numbers.
There are 436 backers on the VF2L campaign, so your backer number will be between 1 and 436, you can find it on Kickstarter at the bottom of “view pledge”.
Me personally I am in no rush, StarFive have stated exactly what they planned to do, if there was a problem I am sure they would have said something - it is not late October (yet). I am happy to wait and see, it is not like having my individual tracking number will make the package arrive sooner. The global mail delivery system is not inherently fast.